Helen Everbach, AMFT, CSE

(All Pronouns) • Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist #159259

*Under supervision by David F Khalili, LMFT
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"We all want an identity that makes life worth living. The good news is, you get to decide what pleases you and makes you feel the most secure. You get to decide which identity you are going to be or not be. It is up to you to travel bravely through the nature of your own desire to a place where you can take it or leave it."

-Kate Bornstein (quote from her book 'Hello, Cruel World')

Biography

I use my background in cultural studies and sex education to look at how challenging social pressures affect your life and relationships. This perspective helps us understand that many difficulties in life and love stem from external stress, not personal failure. My main goal is to create a safe, judgment-free space where individuals, partners, and groups can learn practical ways to feel calmer, handle conflicts better, and communicate clearly. I have extensive experience with many sexual topics, and I specialize in supporting people who are kinky (BDSM), in open or polyamorous relationships, and those who identify as asexual.

Areas of Expertise:

  • Sex and Sexuality

  • Relationships and Dating

  • Kink and BDSM

  • LGBTQ+ Issues

  • Polyamory and Non-Monogamy

  • Diverse and alternative sexual desires and practices

  • Asexuality and Aromanticism

  • Couples and Intimate Partners

Education

  • MA in Sexuality Studies, San Francisco State University, 2023

  • MA in Counseling Psychology, The Wright Institute, 2025

Certifications & Training

  • AASECT (American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) Certified Sex Educator

  • Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist #159259

Fee

  • Individuals: $200/50 min

  • Couples: $255/75 min

Some sliding scale slots are available based on need.

Insurance:

  • Optum

  • United HealthCare

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